"I also always end up running outta wood, because 20 min later (I'm really slow) (and I'm also in lightning mode) after my econ is set up and I'm in the 3rd age, I get under attack before I have any men. Than I go "AAAAAAAAH" and start pumping toxotes (lol, now I know how to pronounce it) and hopolites and then I am suddenly out of wood. =/"
Heres some pointers from me (I had the alpha)
Start producing military as soon as you enter the second age.
Try to enter the second age around 5-6 minutes game time.
Scout and hunt for food. its faster.